Sexuality and the bi/pan lesbian "debate" 

Lots of gatekeepers out on twitter today unpersonning bi/pan lesbians, and it makes no sense to me.

Like, being pan is already a big spectrum/umbrella identity anyways, and with how much of a fluid spectrum gender is, it's hard to justify lesbianism to be just one thing when there's so many ways to be femme, have femme traits and have attraction to femme folks, or folks with femme traits.

If you self-identify as a pan lesbian, you are indeed very valid, regardless of if you mean that you're attracted to femininity in all people, or simply lean more on the sapphic side of the pan spectrum, or anything else.

Don't let the gatekeepers run the narrative. You don't need their permission to exist.

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