
I keep having to rediscover the same things when it comes to writing:
For example, when outlining a book ( yes! I do outline) I can often get stuck in the weeds figuring out what order events happen in.
I know something will happen in the story, but I don't know enough about the story yet to know exactly when it happens in the chain of events. And that can really get me stuck.
What helps me a lot with this is to identify the tentpoles events of the story, the big events that I know for sure what order they happen in. There are usually about three or four of these.
Then I create a document (usually using Scapple) where I have all the other events just as little separate notes, and I sort them into where they fall, not in relation to one another, but in relation to those tentpole events.
The smaller events can stay in a jumble, except for how they relate to the big events. Their order will change even after I've written the first draft.