SleepyCatten<p>Post-egg cracking time is weird :TransHeart: :NonBinaryHeart: </p><p>By the very start of April 2025, it will have been 4 <strong>years</strong> since the shell of our egg finally officially cracked. And as it <strong>finally</strong> cracked, it smashed to pieces.</p><p>It both feels like a lifetime ago and only yesterday that we were still questioning whether or not we were trans... or just (for perfectly cis reasons) someone who wanted to be a gal 🤦♀️ (Oh, that poor sweet summer child :GirlInTransHoodieHuggingFurry:) </p><p>Note to any eggs and/or questioning folks reading this: by definition, cis people don't want to be a gender other than the one assigned to them at birth 😅</p><p>By NHS England standards, we've made more progress than most do within that timeframe. We've beaten our away through:</p><ul><li>2 appointments to get the NHS to agree we're indeed trans 🙄 </li><li>A further appointment about starting HRT and giving us a surgical referral 🤨</li><li>Almost 6 months for them to send a basic letter about starting HRT to our GP 😖</li><li>Yet another appointment to get a second required surgical referral :FaceExhaling: </li></ul><p>For anyone in a country with somewhat functional healthcare for trans people, this is actually <strong>fast</strong> by NHS England standards. Many people wait 3-5+ years for their <strong>first</strong> appointment alone.</p><p>The fact that we've got to the point of getting some <strong>limited</strong> electrolysis covered (16 whole hours) <strong>and</strong> joined a surgeon's waiting list to discuss bottom surgery options <strong>is</strong> great by NHS standards, but it's <strong>shite</strong> by international standards.</p><p>From a certain point of view, we know we <strong>should</strong> be grateful. However, we can't help but feel resentful for how many years of dehumanising hoops and hurdles trans people have to jump through in the UK just to receive basic gender-affirming care. And this is just our perspective as an <strong>adult</strong>: there is currently <strong>no</strong> gender-affirming care whatsoever for trans youth via the NHS 😭</p><p>Gender-affirming care doesn't exist in a vacuum. Whilst we're always happy to see others getting the care they need faster, we won't lie: it's hard not to feel jealous when someone 2-3 years into their transition:</p><ul><li>Was able to start HRT injections on prescription via informed consent.</li><li>Was able to get several life-improving gender-affirming surgeries. E.g.:<ul><li>Standalone bilateral orchidectomy.</li><li>Vaginoplasty.</li><li>Facial Feminisation Surgery (FFS).</li><li>Voice Feminisation Surgery (VFS).</li><li>Breast Augmentation (BA).</li></ul></li></ul><p>For those who don't already know, NHS England doesn't even routinely approve standalone bilateral orchidectomy, FFS, VFS, or BA. And yes, whilst it <strong>is</strong> technically possible to get solely your nads yeeted, it typically:</p><p>(a) is done in place of vaginoplasty; or<br>(b) requires approval of an Individual Funding Request (IFR) by your local Integrated Care Board / System (ICB / ICS), which will be reviewed on a per patient basis.</p><p>Again, whilst you can <strong>technically</strong> apply for funding for FFS, VFS, and/or BA via IFR:</p><ul><li>It's really unlikely to succeed; and</li><li>You first have to convince your gender clinic to actually submit them for you.</li></ul><p>For us, BA isn't something we want, but FFS and VFS very much are :PleadingFaceWithRedHearts: However, we're <strong>still</strong> waiting for our gender clinic to agree to submit IFRs for us! We've actually <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/@SleepyCatten/113867148712117112" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">had to raise a complaint about the clinic</a> refusing to do so 😔</p><p>Anyway, that's enough venting for now.</p><p><a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/NHS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NHS</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/NHSEngland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NHSEngland</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/transgender" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transgender</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/TransFem" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransFem</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/healthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthcare</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/TransHealthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TransHealthcare</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/gatekeeping" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gatekeeping</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/orchidectomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>orchidectomy</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/BofaEctomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BofaEctomy</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/FFS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FFS</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/VFS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VFS</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/FacialFeminisationSurgery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FacialFeminisationSurgery</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/VoiceFeminisationSurgery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VoiceFeminisationSurgery</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/glottoplasty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>glottoplasty</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/IFR" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IFR</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/IndividualFundingRequest" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IndividualFundingRequest</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/queer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>queer</span></a> <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/LGBTQ" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQ</span></a>+ <a href="https://cultofshiv.wtf/tags/LGBTQIA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LGBTQIA</span></a>+</p>